People Pleaser: How To Stop Being So Nice Nice. Isn’t that good? Why would I want to stop being nice? A couple of months back, I had a discussion with a friend who praised being nice. He said his entire brand was built around building more nice guys. Hearing him say that…
How to Listen Effectively: The Storyteller’s Method Listening is hard. Very hard because it’s difficult to measure. Sometimes, the people who look like they are listening are the greatest actors. Nodding their head. Giving you very enthusiastic ‘mhms.’ And a very curious ‘you don’t say??’ But in reality… They are in…
How to Stop Being Jealous of Others Jealousy can either serve as fuel. Or jealousy can serve as a way to self implode. ‘Why do others get jealous?’ Well, can you blame them? We live in a society that encourages competition. Which is great in many fields. But not productive in many…
Do Affirmations Work? My Honest Response This blog discusses communication skills. And a big part of communication skills includes words. Well, guess what else has words? ‘Uh…’ Affirmations. “Affirmations” is a popular phrase in many self-improvement spheres & law of attraction circles. Some people know what they are talking about. And others…
Why you Fear the Audience: Nervous While Public Speaking Do you have a speech coming up? And you are very nervous? Well, you’re not alone. This is a common issue for a lot of people. The thing is that speech anxiety is caused by different reasons. One reason could be that you…
Why Do I Wake Up Sad? One similarity that many people share is waking up sad. Soon as the alarm bell rings, there’s a flurry of sadness that goes on. -What if scenarios. -Sad moments from the past. -Sadness on not being where we think we should be. -Body aches, who knows. …
Outgrowing People & Friends You ever had that moment where you were super cool with someone… However, as years passed, things changed? Conversations that were once fire are now cold. Topics that would get both of you excited now fall flat. And there are more awkward silences? This sort of stuff happens…
The Psychology of an Alter Ego Did you ever notice a few of your favorite athletes… Have an alter ego. A persona that leads to practical benefits. The Baddest Man on the Planet – Mike Tyson Teddy Ballgame – Ted Williams Black Mamba – Kobe Bryant These are just a few names…
Can Exes Be Friends? A golden question that is asked no matter where you’re from: Can exes be friends? This is a blurry question due to the emotions that are involved. Some will say, of course. And others will say, hell no. My view is towards the latter. However, I understand that…
Neurolinguistics to Change Perception Certain fields come in style. Other fields go out of style. What influences the change? Depends. Sometimes it is a technology that gives us awareness into a field that we never fathomed. Other times, different cultures require different modes of thinking. And certain topics are eternal. One topic…
Learning How to Overcome Camera Shyness Are you camera shy? You’ve been wanting to start a Youtube channel for some time. But for some reason, you’ve been postponing. Camera shyness is a real thing. This is when you feel self-conscious during recording sessions. Even if you are confident in other elements of…
Inspiration vs Motivation Although inspiration & motivation seem similar… The two are very different. Before talking about the differences, let’s talk about the similarity. ‘What is the similarity bro?’ It’s motion. The beauty of inspiration and motivation is that it leads to motion. Only if done correctly. But HOW the motion…
The Art of Creating the Perfect Story Conflict The human brain loves storytelling. So much to a point where it starts perceiving the story as REAL. It’s been stated that the subconscious mind has no clue when we are visualizing. This means that it is unable to tell the difference between an act…
How to Be Consistent All the skills in the world mean nothing if you lack consistency. Consistency is the real sign of intelligence. The sad part is that no one will ever see what it takes to be consistent. The emotional resilience, discipline, showing up when you don’t feel like it, etc. …
How to do Visualization to Build Spatial Intelligence Visualization is a powerful concept in many circles. From the circles of athletics, self-improvement, artists, and much more. This site deals with communication skills. Can visualization help you become a better communicator? Of course! Visualization is the training of the mind. And the beauty…
7 Tips on How to Be More Creative Creativity is a superpower in the world of the internet. Those with the best ideas rise. While the overly logical linear thinkers can fall behind. The beauty is that we are all creative. We have no choice in the matter. The question is… Are…
How to Forgive Someone One of the toughest things that you’re going to do in life is to forgive someone. ‘Why?’ Because this individual hurt your ego. Your ego is your sense of identity And when someone hits it hard, it not only impacts you at the moment… It may also create a…
Dealing with Criticism Criticism stings. But want to know something? It’s a part of life. How well you deal with criticism will showcase how far of your potential you will meet. Yep, that is straight facts. A big part of leveling up is knowing that others will give you feedback. And feedback…
