Yin & Yang of Women & Men
A man considers a woman boring when she cannot hold a conversation
A woman considers a man boring when he cannot spike emotions
-A man considers a woman boring when she cannot hold a conversation
Why?
Because it creates roadblocks and more conscious effort
Traditionally, a man will contact the female first in an initial encounter
If the conversation goes smoothly, then the dynamic is smooth
However, a woman who only answers questions back, but doesn’t ask any
Gives one-word responses
Makes the man do all the work
This friction makes the initial conversation a hassle
-A woman considers a man boring when he cannot spike emotions
Spiking emotions means making the woman feel more than 1 emotion
Envision a roller coaster
A roller coaster does not go in a straight line
At a bare minimum, it goes up and down
As a disciplined man, it may be tough to intentionally spike someone’s emotions without coming off as a tryhard
So here are 2 tips
- Humor
No one does not like to laugh.
A humorous personality is a skillset
Find value in laughing and it’ll be easier to make others laugh by accident
- Mystery
Curiosity is a form of emotion as well
Don’t be the person who is saying everything that you plan to do
Keep some mystique
In order to keep mystery without being too secretive, always be in growth mode
By continually leveling up for life, you’ll often surprise yourself
Which will surprise others
