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How to Properly Hype Someone Up<\/h1>\n

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I was once watching this show called Indian Matchmaking on Netflix and was immediately hooked.<\/p>\n

Around the end of the night, I like watching shows where I don’t have to think too much.<\/p>\n

Plus, I learn about psychology through reality dating shows.<\/p>\n

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Within the show, there was a matchmaker who was trying to introduce younger singles.<\/p>\n

There was one potential couple who stood out.<\/p>\n

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The girl was an ambitious businesswoman who was having trouble with her dating life.<\/p>\n

She believed she came off too strong to other men.<\/p>\n

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The guy was a bit older and was stylish.<\/p>\n

He had the personality to woo this ambitious girl.<\/p>\n

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As I heard their conversations, I noticed something.<\/p>\n

It seemed like it was headed toward a dark path.<\/p>\n

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The Slick Talker<\/h2>\n

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As I watched the show, I noticed this guy would have certain opinions…<\/p>\n

Then he’d quickly switch his opinions as soon as the girl said something contrary.<\/p>\n

It’s like he was trying to camouflage himself.<\/p>\n

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Most people don\u2019t like confrontation<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So, it’s not unreasonable that he would slightly modify his opinion to avoid a standoff.<\/p>\n

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That’s not what I’m talking about though…<\/em><\/p>\n

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It seemed deeper.<\/p>\n

It seemed more sinister.<\/p>\n

He kept saying what she wanted to hear.<\/p>\n

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The person I was watching the show with said:<\/p>\n

‘Wow, look at the guy, he has so much game!’<\/em><\/p>\n

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But I saw it differently.<\/p>\n

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Game is when you are flirty with your authentic<\/strong> self.<\/p>\n

This guy was flirty with his inauthentic<\/strong> self.<\/p>\n

It’s as if he didn’t really exist.<\/p>\n

He was putting on an act.<\/p>\n

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My gut reaction proved to be true.<\/p>\n

As time went by, he wasn’t really looking for a relationship.<\/p>\n

He was looking for exposure from TV.<\/p>\n

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Hyping is Not About Lying<\/h2>\n

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The reason I shared the story of this guy was to highlight that spitting game wasn\u2019t about lying.<\/p>\n

That’ll get you in a lot of trouble.<\/p>\n

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Likewise, hyping someone up is not about lying.<\/p>\n

That will make you a nice guy.<\/p>\n

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The difference between a nice guy and a kind guy<\/a> is the following:<\/p>\n